Welcome, I’m so happy to have you here
I am deeply passionate about supporting women in making informed decisions about the type of birth they want—decisions that reflect their own values, desires, and instincts. Not their partner’s. Not their family’s. Not the medical professionals’. Your birth is your journey, and my role is to help you feel confident and empowered in every choice you make.
While birth can be unpredictable, having a clear understanding of your options allows you to approach it with confidence. That’s why I encourage you to explore every possibility and create a plan that aligns with your wishes for all potential scenarios. Even if some plans never come into play, knowing they exist ensures that any decisions made on the day come from a place of calm, clarity, and comfort. My goal is to honor your vision and support you as you navigate this transformative experience.
Why have a doula?
Having a doula by your side is proven to be incredibly beneficial before, during, and after birth. The World Health Organization (WHO) highlights the importance of continuous care during childbirth, but in many cases, this level of support isn’t always available within the maternity system. This is where a doula steps in, offering consistent, personalized care tailored to your needs.
Studies show that having a doula can lead to numerous positive outcomes, including:
A reduced risk of instrumental birth
A reduced risk of cesarean birth
Shorter labour times
A higher likelihood of initiating breastfeeding
Greater success in establishing breastfeeding and continuing beyond six weeks
Doulas provide unwavering emotional, physical, and informational support, creating a calm, nurturing environment where you feel empowered and cared for. By bridging the gaps in care and ensuring you are supported every step of the way, a doula helps make your birth experience more positive and aligned with your wishes.
What is a doula?
The word “doula” comes from Greek origins, meaning “woman’s servant,” and this perfectly encapsulates the heart of a doula’s role: to prioritize and care for the birthing mother. In the birthing room, where the medical team’s primary focus is often on the baby, the doula is there solely for the mother. Unlike midwives or doctors, doulas aren’t medically trained and don’t provide clinical care or advice. Instead, they offer unwavering emotional, physical, and informational support to ensure the mother feels safe, comfortable, and empowered throughout her labour.
A doula holds space for the mother, focusing entirely on her well-being, whether that means providing calming reassurance, offering hands-on comfort measures, or simply being a grounding presence. By centering the mother’s needs, a doula helps create an environment where she feels truly supported and able to birth in a way that aligns with her wishes.
Why Moonstone Rose?
The name Moonstone Rose Birth embodies my passion for advocating for women during childbirth and supporting them in achieving the birth they desire. The inspiration for the name came from my journey navigating the maternity system during my fourth pregnancy. I was determined to have a vaginal birth after three caesareans (VBA3C), a choice that’s rare and often discouraged within the current system. Women in these situations frequently face limited support, pressure to conform to guidelines, or the cascade of interventions that can lead to yet another caesarean. I saw the need for someone to stand beside women as an advocate, providing unwavering support when it feels like the system is working against them.
My fourth baby was born in June, a month represented by the moonstone and the rose. These symbols perfectly reflect my approach to birth work. Moonstones are associated with the divine feminine, new beginnings, nurturing, and inner strength – all qualities that align with the transformative power of childbirth. Roses, meanwhile, represent beauty, resilience, and love, reminding me of the tenderness and strength present in every birthing journey.
As a doula in Cambridgeshire, my work isn’t about crystals or symbolism alone—it’s about creating real, tangible support for women, helping them feel confident, informed, and empowered to make choices that align with their values and desires. Moonstone Rose Birth represents the balance between gentle, nurturing care and steadfast advocacy, ensuring every birthing person feels seen, heard, and supported.
